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SAME-SEX FEMALES

Thinking about starting a family? We support lesbian couples, queer women, and non-binary people assigned female at birth with fertility care that’s inclusive, expert, and shaped around you.

Same-Sex Female Couples

Supportive, expert-led fertility care

Every family starts somewhere. We welcome and support lesbian couples, queer women, non-binary people assigned female at birth, and anyone from the LGBTQ+ community looking to grow their family.

If you’re thinking about having a baby, we’re here to help you explore your options and take the next step with confidence. At Care Fertility, we’ve supported thousands of couples just like you—and we’re ready to support you too.

Why choose Care Fertility

We don’t treat same-sex couples as a separate group—we’ve built our services to include you from the start. No awkward explanations, no one-size-fits-all plans—just expert fertility care that respects your choices and understands your journey.

Here’s what makes Care Fertility different:

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Inclusive care that fits your story
We’ll support your choices with care that reflects who you are.
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Treatment options for both partners
From carrying to donating eggs, we’ll guide you through it.
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Trusted sperm donor programme

Fully screened, HFEA-approved donors, with expert matching support.

 
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Experienced medical teams you can trust
We’ve helped thousands of LGBTQ+ families grow.
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Support that goes beyond treatment
We’re here from your first enquiry to your pregnancy test.
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Inclusive care that fits your story
We’ll support your choices with care that reflects who you are.
CF_Icons_Purple__Easy referral and hassle-free admin 2
Treatment options for both partners
From carrying to donating eggs, we’ll guide you through it.
CF_Brand_Icons_Heart-1
Trusted sperm donor programme

Fully screened, HFEA-approved donors, with expert matching support.

 
CF_Brand_Icons_Person-1
Experienced medical teams you can trust
We’ve helped thousands of LGBTQ+ families grow.
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Support that goes beyond treatment
We’re here from your first enquiry to your pregnancy test.

Your treatment options

Shared motherhood (reciprocal IVF)

A shared experience for both partners
Reciprocal IVF allows one partner to provide the eggs while the other carries the baby—so you can both play a part in the pregnancy. It's one of the most popular treatment choices for same-sex female couples, and we’ll help you build a plan that suits you both.

Learn more about Shared Motherhood 

IUI with donor sperm

A straightforward way to get started
IUI (intrauterine insemination) involves placing donor sperm into the womb around ovulation. It’s a simple, low-intervention option that many couples choose as their first step. If there are no fertility concerns, this could be a good place to begin.

Learn more about IUI

IVF with donor sperm

A more advanced fertility option
IVF might be recommended if IUI hasn’t been successful or if one of you has a known fertility issue. It involves fertilising the egg with donor sperm in the lab, before transferring an embryo into the womb. We’ll guide you through each stage and answer all your questions along the way.

Learn more about IVF 

Egg donation

When you need extra help to conceive
If you need donor eggs to grow your family, we offer access to fully screened, HFEA-approved egg donors. Our donor team will help you find the right match and explain the process from start to finish.

Learn more about Egg Donation 

Frequently asked questions

We know there’s a lot to think about when starting fertility treatment as a same-sex female couple. Here are some of the questions we’re often asked.

Want to go deeper? You can find more advice and information in our Help Centre.

Can lesbian couples both be involved in the pregnancy? Yes. Many lesbian couples choose reciprocal IVF (shared motherhood), which allows both partners to take part. One partner provides the eggs, while the other carries the pregnancy. It’s a deeply personal and shared way to grow your family—both physically and emotionally. Our team will help you decide if this option feels right for you.
What fertility options are available for LGBTQ+ couples?

At Care Fertility, we support a wide range of treatment options for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples, including:

Each path is tailored to your needs, with inclusive care every step of the way.
How does reciprocal IVF work for same-sex female couples?

Reciprocal IVF allows both partners in a same-sex female couple to be physically involved in the process. One partner undergoes hormone treatment and egg collection, while the other receives the embryo and carries the pregnancy.

You'll also choose a sperm donor, which we can help you do through our licensed, HFEA-approved donor programme. It’s a shared experience that many couples find incredibly meaningful.
What is the best fertility treatment for lesbian couples?

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer—it depends on your fertility health, age, and preferences. Many lesbian couples start with IUI, as it’s simple and non-invasive. Others opt for IVF or reciprocal IVF for more involvement or higher success rates.

We always recommend starting with a Full Fertility Check to assess your options and make a plan that’s right for you.
Is Care Fertility LGBTQ+ friendly?

Yes—Care Fertility is proudly LGBTQ+ inclusive. We’ve supported thousands of lesbian couples, same-sex parents, trans individuals, and queer families across the UK.

You’ll be treated with respect, listened to without judgement, and offered fertility care that reflects who you are. This isn’t just something we offer during Pride—it’s built into how we work, every day.